All men do not dream of being extraordinary but without self-esteem these men could not even claim to be regarded as ordinary!
We all go through times when the image we have of ourselves, the esteem that we acquire for ourselves are abused. These times, everyone knows them and is not so much the knowledge to avoid that will define the kind of people that you are rather than how to manage their periods.
The goal is not to avoid them, they must be prepared. How to prepare? by having to raise what I call “capital self-esteem”.
Use the power of words to your advantage
We all know that inner voice (if you do not see very well who I mean, take a look at the following article: 75% of inner consciousness observed in 25% of inner consciousness) shows that sometimes bad and sometimes shows really bad. I think for many of us, sadly we underestimate the power that words can have on our conscience.
Here is a quote from Henry Ford that I like to read and reread:
“There are people who say they can, others that they can not. In general, they are all correct.”
No matter what you think of yourself, know that you’re right! Whether you think you are able to do certain things, know that you’re right! For my part I left this in my mind to tell me if it considers it positive that I have of myself, as estimated negative that I can maintain myself are both constructions, so why me take the lead consider myself to respect me as positively negative! The one in the other two use the same resources, it will be the results of the use of these resources will differ.
Over-develop your strengths
I know that usually it is fashionable to say that the work of its weaknesses is a great way to progress. In truth, it would be a lie to say that this is wrong! Everyone can work on his weaknesses and I am almost certain that anyone can grow .
However, as the argument of Tom Rath in his book StrenghtsFinder 2.0, not the hard work of its weaknesses as not surpass the regular work of his forces!
There are certainly things you are doing well … learn to make them so good is the best way and the quickest way to build self-esteem and above all growing healthy.
In fact it is the recognition of your talent that will create in you feel good about yourself.
Enjoy your full and complete success
The fact is that personal development generally places great emphasis on learning that we can make mistakes and those of others. I myself wrote an article on the popular power of the error.
I do not deny absolutely what I wrote earlier: Mistress error does not forgive a teacher and is very talented and knows how to coach “in shortcuts”! That said any part gable and God knows it’s good sometimes to just forget in the fullness of mini-successes that litter the road to our dreams.
In fact the flavor of these successes involved the construction of a healthy self-confidence and true. It will be one of the cornerstones of stability that does not break when your view of yourself will end up battered (and it will, you can be sure!).
All great success is paved with mini-success! Your ability to see and celebrate as appropriate, will depend on the general state of your mind and suddenly you have esteem for your person.